Perspectives Press

Articles and fact sheets

Beware the Dragon!

Once upon a time there lived a princess so beautiful both inside and out that every man in her parents’ realm longed to marry her. After many months of grueling challenges, a noble, kind, and handsome prince won her hand, and they were married.As they left the palace of her parents to make their own […]

Assessing Attachment-Readiness and Capabilities in Prospective Adoptive Parents

Excerpted from Chapter 9: “The Role of The Child Welfare/Social Worker” in Deborah Gray’s 2007 book Nurturing Adoptions: Creating Resilience after Neglect and Trauma

Making Good Decisions about Using Donated Eggs:
Elements and Influences

Excerpted from Ellen Sarasohn Glazer and Evelina Weidman Sterling’s Having Your Baby Through Egg Donation

Children First:
Making the Paradigm Shift from Infertility to Adoption

by Pat Johnston This article first appeared in the enewsletter and on the website of INCIID.org, for which Pat moderates three adoption boards.Similar material now appears in her newest bookAdopting: Sound Choices, Strong Families (2007)

Talking with Children about their Orphanage Background:
A Guide to Using Borya and the Burps!

A “user’s guide” to Joan McNamara’s children’s book Borya and the Burps!

Losing a Sibling: Helping Your Child Cope with an Adoption Reversal

by Pat Johnston and Wendy Williams

‘Adopt-a’ Confusion

from Adopting After Infertility and Adopting: Sound Choices, Strong Families by Pat Johnston

From Infertility to Family:
A Musical Journey

Popular songs providing comfort and empathy through the infertility journey.

Talking to Children about Sex and Adoption

from Flight of the Stork by Anne Bernstein

When Adopted Toddlers Reject Their Parents

by Mary Hopkins-Best from Toddler Adoption: The Weaver’s Craft first appeared in the PNPIC Post in Autumn, 1997.

In the Best Interests of the Embryos?

by Ellen Glazer is a provocative essay advocating against “embryo adoption” and for donation of “extra” embryos to stem cell research. It first appeared in the American Infertility Association’s newsletter.

Post-Adoption Services

by Vera I Fahlberg, M.D. is a part of the training material included in her books A Child’s Journey through Placement and Residential Treatment.

Making Sense of New Conceptions…in a Family Way

from Flight of the Stork by Anne Bernstein

Choosing Embryo Adoption

by Susan Cooper and Ellen Glazer from their book Choosing Assisted Reproduction: Social, Emotional and Ethical Considerations.

The Life Story Book

by Vera Fahlberg, MD, was adapted from A Child’s Journey through Placement

Relaxing the Grip of Anxiety and Control

Excerpted from Deborah Gray’s Attaching in Adoption: Practical Tools for Today’s Parents.

The Child Who Is ‘Stuck’

by Vera I. Fahlberg, M.D., is an adaptation from her books A Child’s Journey through Placement and Residential Treatment and trainings.

What Should We Tell the Kids?

from Taking Charge of Infertility by Pat Johnston

Speaking Positively: Using Respectful Adoption Language

by Pat Johnston

The Commitment

by Pat Johnston (first appeared in Adoption Today’s January 2001 issue)

Five Hot Buttons Not to Push

by Pat Johnston (with help from her friends on the INCIID adoption boards), from Adoption Is a Family Affair! What Friends and Relatives Must Know

The Guy on the Street and New Tech Babies
Advice from the Trenches for Parents

by Pat Johnston

Losing an Adoption: Practical Advice for Moving on after a Uniquely Painful Experience

by Pat Johnston and Wendy Williams from a book in process

The Financial Impact of Adoptive Parenthood

by Pat Johnston, adapted from Launching a Baby’s Adoption and Adopting: Sound Choices, Strong Families

Getting Real

(Building a sense of entitlement…are you the “real parent”?) by Pat Johnston, first appeared in Roots & Wings magazine after being adapted from Adopting after Infertility. It is now included in Adopting: Sound Choices, Strong Families

Promoting Attachment through the Senses

by Pat Johnston, adapted from Launching a Baby’s Adoption and now <Adopting: Sound Choices, Strong Families

Medical Ethics and the New Reproductive Technologies

by Susan Cooper and Ellen Glazer from Choosing Assisted Reproduction: Social, Emotional and Ethical Considerations

Instant Family? A Case Against Artificial Twinning

is a new and expanded treatment of material already published in Pat Johnston’s books Launching a Baby’s Adoption and Adopting: Sound Choices, Strong Families, as well as in articles for Adoptive Families magazine, Pact Press, and Serono Symposia USA’s newsletter for professionals, Insights into Infertility. This is controversial stuff, but something all prospective adopters and couples reluctant to put treatment behind before adopting should read.

Infertility and Aftershocks

by Pat Johnston, explores the long-term psychological impact of infertility and discusses why resolving this issue is so important to future parenting relationships. Adapted from Taking Charge of Infertility, this article first appeared in the magazine Pact Press from Pact: An Adoption Alliance.

Observing Infertility Awareness Month

Activities for you or your group to try by Pat Johnston with the American Fertility Association.

Observing Adoption Awareness Month

A compiled list of quick, easy, cheap, last-minute ideas for observing AAM this November as well as a list of ideas for observations that will take a half year or more of pre-planning for next year!